(Podcast with Milan and Kay Yerkovich, author of How We Love: Discover Your Love Style, Enhance Your Marriage)
Recommended Podcast by Crystal King
The FOCUS ON THE FAMILY Podcast interviews long time counselors Milan and Kay Yerkovich in this intriguing discussion of love styles. Milan and Kay show how God created humans to attach to others and benefit from those attachments. Sometimes, these attachments become full of strife, but Milan and Kay have a riveting and deeply personal way of explaining the science of the mind and why relationships, which are meant to be so life-giving, can sometimes feel like they are stifling and destructive.
“As a child they’re [love styles] very protective but they become so automatic, we don’t even know what’s animating us as an adult…I had to learn to go back and repair the places I just didn’t develop….have a knowledge about what do I feel because feelings link to needs” (Kay).
“We say you should have a PhD in your spouse’s childhood...You are the sum total of your history…Understanding your spouse’s history is the key to having compassion…the thing that they do that bugs you the most, has a childhood wound sitting under it” (Kay).
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